When a polyamorous couple goes out with their shared girlfriend as a trio, they claim to garner “looks everywhere.”
Jess and Stephen Demarco, from Florida, US, have been together for 13 years.
They decided to take their relationship one step further by stepping into the world of polyamory – in their case, adding another lady into the mix.
And because Jess is bisexual, she truly has the best of both worlds.
The 30-somethings go on dates together and occasionally invite their extended partner for fun nights out.
They may have the ideal setup, yet there can be challenges with it.
Jess and Stephen discussed how their three-person relationship dynamic works in an exclusive interview with Daily Star. They revealed that they are used to receiving unusual looks.
They may have the ideal setup, yet there can be challenges with it.
Jess and Stephen discussed how their three-person relationship dynamic works in an exclusive interview with Daily Star. They revealed that they are used to receiving unusual looks.
“I feel like when it’s usually in the bar and people are drinking we get the most talkative – and they ask a bunch of questions.”
Some people even try to chat up either Jess or the girlfriend, without realising they are both with Stephen.
“They come up and say ‘hey can I buy this girl a drink’ and ‘I’m like she’s my girlfriend’ and then he asks ‘how about you’ and then the other says ‘I’m his girlfriend too’.”
“Sometimes when she [Jess] goes to the bathroom a random girl will come up and say ‘I saw your man touch your friend’ like real nosy and then she has to tell them.
“I’ve had girls holla me to the bathroom and say ‘your man started kissing and touching your friend’.”
Despite “nosy” strangers, the pair are happy to date as a three to avoid anyone feeling left out.
“At first we do everything together as we don’t want anyone to feel left out and jealous that’s how we try to avoid jealousy,” they voiced.
“But after we date for a while, whatever they want to do goes.
